Should a Man Wear a Wedding Band?
Should a man wear a wedding ring? The question may seem strange to some of you, but the truth is that up until recent years, it was very uncommon, and there are still many cultures today where it is not practiced. Traditionally wedding rings were given to women as a symbol that she was “off the market.” During World War Two, by some urging by the jewelry industry, many US soldiers began wearing a band on their left ring finger as a token of devotion to his wife while he was away at war. These wedding rings publicized the GI’s marital status and told his wife back home that he intended to remain faithful and devoted to her. Because this was not a common practice, the act of a man wearing a wedding band made a stronger statement. In fact, prior to the Great Depression, only 15% of grooms wore a ring, and after the end of World War Two the percentage increased to 80%. Today, while it is almost unheard of the groom foregoing the ring, some men have a little anxiety over the concept of permanent jewelry. This is not likely because they will be advertising their unavailability, but because many men have never worn jewelry before, and the feeling on their hand can seem strange. Also, many men are working in industries where a ring could get in the way, and damaged easily, so it becomes impractical. I think most new brides and grooms want both parties to wear a wedding ring symbolizing their love and devotion to one another, so here are some things that may make the transition from the naked ring finger, to the adorned one.
First of all, consider comfort. Men’s wedding bands of the past were rather rigid, and pinched the finger, making wearing one rather uncomfortable. Today there are many comfort fit rings on the market designed to be much more ergonomic. The interior is curved, so it doesn’t pinch the skin. Second, consider durability. Metals such as Stainless Steel, Titanium and Tungsten are incredibly strong, and won’t scratch and bend like Gold or Platinum. These metals are great for men that work in dangerous trades. Finally, consider the style. Diamonds are no longer just for a woman’s wedding ring, but some men prefer a simple band with no detail. His ring should reflect his personality, which will make it much easier to wear daily. It is important to realize also, that regardless of the comfort, durability, or style, men may need to take their ring off from time to time. Some men cannot do their job with a ring; others may prefer not to wear one in the gym while lifting weights. Ladies, if they do remove their rings for reasons like these, remember, it is not because they hope the woman next to them on the treadmill strikes up a conversation, it is only due to man’s inert concern for practicality.
This simple, Titanium, Comfort Fit ring would be perfect for any man.
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